YOUR OWN BEST LOVER

YOUR OWN BEST LOVER

an intimate bespoke 1:1 mentorship catered to your unique needs and desires with a focus on accessing more safety, pleasure, and expression in your body

your own best lover

for many of us, our first experiences of pleasure and authentic expression came with conflicting reactions.

most of the time we were met with judgement, dismissal, or flat out shame.

every time we were met with a less than ideal reaction, we then internalized these messages which then continue to shape the way we relate to pleasure and expression in our everyday lives.

This affects our relationships, our self perception, and our ability to take up spAce and be seen.

we are in such a pivotal time right now where women are craving more. More in life, more in our relationships, more in our careers, and more for humanity.

we are trailblazing forward to reclaim the parts of us that have been fragmented and dimmed down in order to fit into a mold that was created by others expectations. not our own.

in this process we find that authentic pleasure and raw expression tend to be the parts that are exiled and forgotten.

i created your own best lover as a space for you to uncover and excavate what’s been buried away to come into more of your fullness and discover your unique pleasure landscape.

If you want to experience intimate connections where you feel seen, Cherished, Valued, and SAFE to be your untamed self…

then this starts with YOU first.

It STARTS WITH YOU BECOMING your own best lover…

i'm ready!
i'm ready!

choosing to step onto the path of self-discovery in this way can feel vulnerable, i really get that. It can feel edgy, uncertain, and bring up all different kinds of emotions.

And yet you’re here. I am celebrating you!

what to expect

8 virtual 75 min sessions over the course of 4 months

an educational deep yet lighthearted space to learn your anatomy, somatic landscape, and erotic style

a personalized structure to support you in your specific needs and desires

an abundant mix of theory, embodied learning, somatic practices, at-home practices, and self-reflection / integration

text and voice note support during normal business hours

heart centered guidance and accountability towards your desires and goals

through deep one to one support there is space to 
move slow and actually find what works for you
as an individual

this is for you if…

you are unsure how to identify and clearly communicate what you want and need in the bedroom with partners

you feel pressure to fake orgasms AND pleasure with lovers

you find yourself spending a lot of time in your mind and not fully in your body

you feel confused after yet another sexual experience that felt unsatisfying and disconnected

you are familiar with one specific route to Orgasm and at the same time are eager to know what other pleasure potential there is

you feel Pain, numbness, and/or disconnection from your body and yoni

you are lost when it comes to understanding your pleasure zones or what even feels pleasurable to you in the first place

you are over second guessing and over-thinking what you shared or did in Sexual encounters

you feel awkward and uncomfortable with self pleasure and/or in intimacy with partners

you feel stressed or avoidant when partners initiate sex

INVESTMENT:

$3433 USD

space is limited + application required

6 month payment plan option:

$575 per month

I'm Interested
I'm Interested

THE JOURNEY

THE JOURNEY

  • Safety in Soma

    MONTH 1

    Cultivating safety in your body is the most important aspect of experiencing more pleasure in your body! We will move at the pace of your body. You will develop in depth awareness in identifying what your internal signals are communicating to you and how to self-resource.

  • Sensual Self

    MONTH 2

    Sensuality is the path into presence. Getting all of your senses involved to guide you into your body more. Through intentional sensation activation and awareness you will witness what pleasure is available within you. There is a focus on engaging all 5 senses to bring you deeper into your body in practice and in your daily life.

  • BODY LITERACY

    MONTH 3

    becoming attuned to your body’s natural signals and responses is the bridge for deeper states of pleasure. learning the language of your body somatically from a slow and curious state allows for more of your lived experience to come online. you will become literate in your female nervous system and body.

  • Erotic devotion

    Month 4

    integrating a practice of devotional worship of self by creating sacred ritual of self-pleasure, self-care, and self-love to bring you into your erotic power. Reclaiming pleasure as your birthright. You know yourself intimately and have integrated a whole body and whole self pleasure practice as part of your lifestyle now.

you are ready to experience yourself more fully and have it seep out into every area of your life.

it is radical to DISCOVER the texture of Your authentic expression when you approach your pleasure and body with reverence and love instead of resistance and shame.

it is radical to become an expert in your anatomy and arousal in a culture that encourages quite the opposite.

The more space we create for the ultimate homecoming to our bodies and pleasure, the more our lives begin to feel authentic to who we truly are and our lust for life.

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testimonials

  • Erin provided me guidance and tools to better navigate my relationships.

    When I started with Erin I was hoping to explore self-sensuality, to deepen the sacred body/mind/essence connection and expand confidence to show up and share myself unabashedly. 

    When diving into this wild work, it’s important for me to find a coach who is genuinely authentic, practices deep listening, intuitively connected and has a bold yet compassionate way to point out my blind spots. That’s Erin. 

    Erin’s approach has a natural grace which allowed me to open up softly with ease and understanding and to relearn a language to better express myself and be with vulnerability. She attentively listens while she holds up a mirror for self-healing. She doesn't provide unsolicited advice, her words just land in a way that empower me to make the lasting connections.

    I didn’t know our 6-month journey would teach me so much about boundaries and communication. Erin provided me guidance and tools to better navigate my relationships. She helped me to identify and tend to parts of my inner psyche and strengthen my ability to hold space for myself. She worked with me to re-affirm and ignite the light inside me. 

    Since our container, I’ve noticed my manifesting game is on point!! I’m witnessing improvements in how I hold myself more confidently and more assuredly in relationships with others. I put myself out there more and am on the path to pursuing my passions, no longer alone, but sharing my passions with others in community.

    Thank you erin!!!!

    - amber

Frequently Asked Questions

  • The foundation of my approach is body-based, meaning this is a bottom up approach. We slow down and check in with the body’s experience throughout. Our bodies hold the memory of all our experiences so when we create a space for our body to communicate with us there is much we can work with. I combine a mix of female sex ed elements, somatic practices, and somatics for the female nervous system.

  • This is personally curated for you. So depending on what we have discussed around your goals and desires, the sessions are shaped to support your process. Each month has a focus as you can read above and they build on each other. Sessions can include guided somatic practices, theory / educational pieces, verbal support and guidance, at-home practices and “homework”, and mini-goal setting for sessions to come.

  • You’re in the correct place! This is for anyone with a vulva. Whether this is the first time you are exploring yourself in this way or if you are seasoned in your relationship to pleasure! I’ve got you.

  • Absolutely. I really get you! Exploring new territory always comes with a level of nerves. After you fill out an application, we will hop on a connection call to chat more about the details and if this feels like a good fit.

  • Yes, this is an option. If you need an extended payment plan, I do my best to work with you with where you are at. get in touch!

  • Currently, this. is only offered virtually.

  • YAY! First, please fill out this application HERE (or link is above). I’ll be in touch via email shortly after to then set up a free connection call via zoom for us to meet and discuss further. If this feels aligned for both of us, we will then move forward.

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